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Original: 7/22/2006 8:23 PM
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Saturday, July 22, 2006

 

Hmm, interesting question someone posed to me today:

Him: Yo man, been thinking
Me: Oh dear, don't think it's bad for your health
Him: Haha
Me: Not joking man, I'm a future healthcare professional
Him: Whatever, anyway, yo so there's this girl right
Me: Oh dear, girls are bad for your health too
Him: Yea, I know but listen
Me: ok
Him: So yea, she's like perfect in everything I want in a girl
Me: and then poof, you wake up
Me: back to reality, oh there goes gravity
Him: Yea, kind of like that
Me: Dude, that was me being stupid
Him: But yea, she's everything I want, but I'm not physically attracted to her
Him: So what should I do?  Should I go for it?
Me: You serious bout this?
Him: Yea man
Me: Wow, first time you've ever been serious about anything
Him: Dude, just answer the question
Me: Hmm, mind if I think bout it and stuff, get back to you?
Him: Sure man, you know where to find me, I'm on this thing 24/7
Me: cool

So yea, quick need an answer!

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i guess this applies to both boys and girls. i guess the question comes down to how important physical appearance factors into one's idea of 'love'.  is love really blind or do we all have our own ideal image of a mate?  questions, questions.. i guess i didn't really help you there
Posted 7/22/2006 11:46 PM by kiljoye - reply

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The problem with the comment above is that you CAN'T love someone at that stage. Not until you're BFF's or something. Will you allow yourself to explore romance without the physical attraction, and see if love develops? Or will there always be something holding the 2 apart?
Posted 7/23/2006 2:10 AM by DJSpazzy - reply

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it's kind of hard at this point because unfortunately, physical attraction is pretty much what will ignite that spark, ignite that love mechanism that's in everyone. that is, if we're really talking about love or just an interest. should he go for it? why not? can't hurt at all. thing is, we're talking about a guy going for a girl that has everything he wants in a girl but that doesn't mean she will go for him at all. so that sort of begs the question, should someone go for someone else who they are not physically attracted to but are attracted to in a lot of other ways? my answer is, yes, he should. should start off really slow as friends first and see where it goes. physical attraction changes when one's idea of what physically beautiful is altered either by experiences or when the other kind of love takes over.
Posted 7/23/2006 2:54 PM by magicwong - reply

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You know alot off people say in my church, if you married someone skinny and hot, they bound to be old and wrinkle. On this topic, I don't know, sometimes like NIKE slogan "JUST DO IT".
Posted 7/23/2006 8:53 PM by mixart - reply

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-umm...if she's everything he wants, does he not want a girl he's physically attracted to? If he in fact does, then no she is not everything he wants.


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Posted 7/23/2006 10:41 PM by tkxcloud - reply


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